My Son’s 5 Important Football Questions Made Me Smile

Originally published on BabyCenter.com February 10, 2016

As the Super Bowl approached, my son suddenly developed an interest in football. This works out for me, since American football is the one sport I know a good deal about. It did, however, bring me into the conundrum of how I should let him pick his favorite team.

Despite living in New England, I’m a Giants fan. Sorry, Patriots, but my dad followed football before you guys were a franchise, and the Giants used to hold their training camp up here in Vermont. I like Tom Brady and company, but I just can’t bring myself to really care about their success or failure.

At the same time, I don’t want my kids to select their preferences based only on what I like. My dad was a pro at this – he would take deliberately contrary views, sometimes even spouting some very offensive ideology, with the ultimate goal of making us stand up for our beliefs. He used this tactic for just about everything, from sports to serious issues like racism.

I can take my dad’s lessons to heart, but I can’t replicate them, even with something as trivial as sports. If my kids ever become Cowboys fans, they’re just going to have to deal with me throwing up in my mouth a little whenever they wear something with that damned star on it.

(Then again, if my kids ever wind up playing or working for the Cowboys, go Dallas!)

We have biased our kids a little bit toward the Giants, but I deem that to be necessary. Our son’s first football season saw them reach the Super Bowl, so we couldn’t not get him some Giants gear. They’ve gone 22-34 since our daughter was born, so she hasn’t been quite so lucky.

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Comics & Quests: First Encounters, part one

To me, the most disappointing thing about D&D comics is that they don’t last. The stories tend to be fun, the worldbuilding is nice, and the cast of characters is usually great. But licensing issues or low sales often lead to the cancellation of a series within a couple of years.

This is the case with the 4th edition Dungeons & Dragons comic, which is an especially big shame because the second arc spends time introducing our heroes’ backstories. Write John Rogers really created a story that had room to grow, but situations beyond his control prevented the seeds he planted from fully bearing fruit.

Still, it’s a fun ride while it lasts. With that said, let’s jump into the middle arc of this series, “First Encounters.”

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Getting Villainous: Suicide Squad as an RPG Campaign

Originally published on Sidekickcast.com February 9, 2016

Running an RPG with evil characters tends to be difficult. While it’s perfectly possible for players to create complex evil characters (and I’ve seen it done at my table before), they just as frequently interpret the “E” in their alignment block as a reason to maim and kill every NPC they come across.

Personally, the next time I run a game with evil PCs, I’ll probably hit my comics collection for inspiration. Specifically, the John Ostrander-written Suicide Squad title that launched in 1987 is one of the best examples of a story that made the audience cheer for the bad guys.

The concept behind Suicide Squad wasn’t all that groundbreaking – the government selects a group of super criminals to take on jobs that heroes can’t – but the execution was brilliant. Taking it into an RPG requires players who really like the concept, but I think it could work quite well in the right circumstances.

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What do You do When Your Kid Can’t Stand You?

Originally published on BabyCenter.com February 3, 2016

For my daughter the words, “Do you want to spend time with Daddy?” often elicit tears and shrieks. I don’t want to say she doesn’t like me, but I’m clearly not her favorite parent. In fact, there are times when it seems like she’d rather be alone than have me in the room at all.

That’s not to say there aren’t times when we’re buddies. If she’s napped well during the day and my wife isn’t around, she’ll play with me, dance with me, and genuinely enjoy herself. But if she’s tired or Mommy is an option at all, she usually wants me to keep my distance.

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Ambush at the Oasis: A Pathfinder 1st Edition Encounter

Finalist, Lethal Lairs 2015 contest, KoboldPress.com

Ambush at the Oasis” is a CR 9 encounter for the Pathfinder Role-Playing Game. It is set in the Southlands campaign setting, available through Kobold Press, but can be adapted for use in any fantasy setting that has a desert.

According to legend, the blue wyrm Azdrar once looked upon his life and saw an emptiness that all his greed and machinations could not fill. Determined to turn over a new leaf, he spent the last decades of his life aiding travelers through the Sarklan Desert, serving as one of the only examples of a benevolent blue dragon the world has ever known.

Whether Azdrar truly reformed or not, a small desert spring in the Hariek Hills holds his bleached white bones and a ring of desert lupines that always seem to retain a vibrant hue. It is said that the waters of the oasis sprang forth from the tears of remorse the wyrm shed and that they possess curative properties.

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Opportunities Abound for the Fantasy 1%

Originally published on Sidekickcast.com January 26, 2016

While most fantasy fiction limits magic use to the main characters, fantasy RPGs have a whole economy built up around them. A default RPG setting assumes that the PCs are one of many heroes, which means towns are likely to hold retired spellcasters who might provide services or even sell magic items to younger heroes.

None of this magic economy really benefits the commonfolk, unfortunately. If a typical peasant makes only two silver pieces a day, he has to save up for a couple of months to even afford a simple cure light wounds spell, let alone something that could cure diseases or raise the dead.

The fantasy one-percenters, however, have a lot of fun options out there. Here are a few things somebody with lots of cash can accomplish in a typical fantasy RPG. I’m using Pathfinder 1st edition as the rules default here, but most of these options exist in similar games as well.

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The Business Rivalry that Wrecked Corporate America

You see it all the time in the United States: a publicly-traded company has the option of thinking long-term and/or building goodwill with a loyal customer base, but instead squeezes the consumer with unfair business practices and price-gouging. Whether it’s gas distributors fixing prices, Netflix jacking its subscription fees up yet again, or a jackass raising the cost of life-saving medicine, corporate America seems bent on squeezing every penny out of the consumer, consequences be damned.

Why do they do it? If you think it’s just because they’re evil…well, you’re basically right. But even evil people pretend to have a justification for what they do, and when it comes to shady business practices it usually goes back to a 1919 case in the Michigan Supreme Court where Henry Ford failed to stop a revolt within his own company.

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Absent Parents, Fantasy Literature, and Conquest of Greystone Valley

Spoilers for Greystone Valley follow.

Kid heroes are a staple of fantasy fiction. It’s part of the wish fulfillment of the genre – many of us fall into fantasy tales when we’re children, imagining ourselves taking on our greatest fears and earning the fame and fortune that are normally reserved only for adults. But where are those kids’ parents?

In most cases, a parent in a story about a kid hero is an obstacle that has to be removed. A responsible parent isn’t about to let their child run off into danger. As a result, parents in these stories are usually either absent, oblivious, or in danger themselves.

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How Two Kids and a 91-Year-Old Help Me Keep My Cool

Originally published on BabyCenter.com December 11, 2015

My bus ride into work the other day featured somebody behind me who was very upset at the driver. Over and over, he kept muttering to the person next to him, “That f***ing foreigner.” It was one of the more depressing ways I could have started my day.

Effing foreigner…spoken as though the word foreigner was a slur. As though being a foreigner was a bad thing and as though the driver was less of a person because of the place he was born. The venom with which the person spat that word lingered in my head for the rest of the day.

Certainly, there are about a million worse words that could have been said, but sometimes the way somebody uses a word speaks louder than the word itself. And since America has seemingly lost its collective mind over the past couple of weeks, this extra dose of xenophobia was the straw that broke my back.

In addition to my wife, who is always an amazing sounding board for my thoughts, three people helped me get out of my shocked, depressed funk and move on with my week. Two of them are under five years old, and one of them is in his 90s.

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Doctor Who: Things I Miss from the Classic Era

As of 2026, Doctor Who is going through a bit of a tough stretch. For the first time since the show came back in 2005, fans don’t have a new season to look forward to. While 2026 promises a holiday special that will hopefully explain why Billie Piper showed up on the TARDIS, there have been no announcements of a new Doctor or even a hint of the series continuing in 2027 and beyond.

But the show’s been off the air before, and hope will always spring eternal that it regenerates again in the future. And while fans wait anxiously for news of the TARDIS’ next voyage, I can’t help but glance backward at the last time the series went off the air. Classic Doctor Who might be known mostly for its low budget effects and outlandish costumes, but it has many elements that I enjoyed and which I would love to see come back in the modern era.

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